Artificial dis-connections: Between desire, conflict, and emotional connection

With the aim of providing an overview of the psychological dynamics emerging from the growing diffusion of Artificial Intelligence (AI) systems, this paper examines the phenomenon of anthropomorphism toward AI and investigates how interactions with systems such as ChatGPT and recommendation algorithms shape human desire and decision-making. Drawing on psychoanalytic theories – such as Freudian conceptualizations, Lacan’s notion of lack, Winnicott’s concept of the false self, and Deutsch’s notion of the “as if” personality – it explores how these interactions can diminish central aspects of psychic functioning, including conflict, ambiguity, and the capacity to desire, affecting creativity, authenticity, and vitality. Moreover, in line with interpersonal and relational perspectives, and echoing contributions by authors such as Sullivan and Stern, the paper also reflects on how meaning and emotional resonance emerge within a shared intersubjective field, a dimension that remains inaccessible in interactions with AI. The conclusions highlight the emotional dimension of language reciprocity and calls for conscious, reflective engagement with AI to mitigate potential psychological risks.